Questions to Ask Yourselves When Planning Your Engagement Session

Your engagement session is more than just a photoshoot—it’s a celebration of your love story! To make the most of it, a little planning goes a long way. Whether you envision something elegant, adventurous, or playful, asking yourselves these key questions can help create a session that feels truly you.

1. What Story Do We Want to Tell?

Think about what makes your relationship unique. Do you want your photos to reflect a special milestone, your favorite activities together, or the place where you first met? Knowing the story you want to tell will guide the overall vibe of your session. For couples in Sonoma County, consider tying your story to local favorites like the vineyards, Bodega Bay’s coastline, or a charming downtown area like Healdsburg.

2. What Time of Year Fits Us Best?

Do you love the cozy colors of fall, the blossoming romance of spring, or the carefree sunshine of summer? For example, wine country couples might adore the vibrant grapevine hues of autumn or the fresh green hills of early spring. Each season offers its own magical touch, so pick one that resonates with you as a couple.

3. Where Do We Feel Most Comfortable?

Location is key! Are you drawn to a quiet beach, a lush forest, or a bustling cityscape? Places like the Bodega Bay, Armstrong Redwoods, or a vineyard can create stunning backdrops that reflect the region’s natural beauty. Do you have a favorite restaurant? Favorite park/ hiking trail?

4. What Will We Wear?

Your outfits set the tone for your photos. Do you want a dressy look, a casual vibe, or both? Coordinating colors and textures without being too “matchy” is key. Consider the location, season, and any special pieces you want to include, like heirloom jewelry or matching hats for a playful touch. For vineyard sessions, flowing dresses and soft, natural tones work beautifully. Style & Select is a great resource to use! Use code TOHAVEANDTOHOLD

5. Should We Bring Props or Include Pets?

Adding personal touches like props or your furry friends can make your session extra meaningful. Whether it’s a picnic blanket, champagne for a toast, or your pup in a bowtie, these details can bring your photos to life. Don’t forget, pets are often welcome in outdoor locations like parks and vineyards, so feel free to include them!

6. How Do We Want to Use the Photos?

Are you planning to use your engagement photos for save-the-dates, a wedding website, or home decor? This can help determine whether you want a formal or relaxed session, as well as specific shots to prioritize. Asking this question also helps us make sure we get them done on time. Looking for a few ideas on how to use them? Ideas Here

7. Do We Have a Favorite Time of Day?

Golden hour (the hour after sunrise or before sunset) is a favorite for soft, dreamy lighting, but consider what time of day works best for your schedule and the mood you want. Early morning light can be really pretty too. In fact if your thing about a beach session I will recommend morning because there is less wind then.

8. Do We Want to Include a Theme?

If you both love something specific—like vintage vibes, a shared hobby, or a favorite book or movie—it could be fun to incorporate that into your session! Themed engagement sessions stand out and can be incredibly memorable.

9. How Do We Want to Prepare?

Think about how you want to get ready for the session. Scheduling hair and makeup appointments, picking outfits in advance, or just getting enough rest the night before can make a big difference. Sonoma County offers many talented stylists and boutiques, so you can easily find professional help nearby. Prep guide checklist here

10. What Does This Moment Mean to Us?

Lastly, reflect on what this stage of your relationship means. Taking a moment to connect and embrace the excitement of being engaged will make your photos all the more special and heartfelt.

By asking yourselves these questions, you’ll not only make your engagement session more personal but also create memories you’ll treasure for a lifetime. Ready to start planning? I cant wait to help bring your vision to life!